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        <title>爱与痛</title>
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        <title>我超喜欢的椅子</title>
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        <title>要做一个懂得爱的聪明女人</title>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>　　<strong>姐妹们，在这个世间有三样东西不能轻易相信：男人的承诺、男人的感情及男人的理由。但同时请记得，世间也有三样东西最珍贵：男人的承诺、男人的感情及男人的心。</strong>&nbsp;<br />
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　　男人是所很好的学校，能把女人调教得光彩夺目。我们的爱情总是千疮百孔，受一次伤老一次。女人任时光雕彩得越发精致，到最后她已经很难再爱上一个人，如果谁让她爱上，那是福气。因为她懂得如何爱你，懂得风情万种又不失端庄。 </p>
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<p>　　我知道那是一种类似狐狸转世的修炼。除了上天赋予的美貌和智能外还有很多个人的特质。女人要先爱自己再修炼，不要怕男人不爱你，妖精没有年龄。那么，我们现在就来学着做一个聪明的八面玲珑的小妖精吧!</p>
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<p>　　大多数女人得到的信息是男生一般比较喜欢温柔娴静的女人，事实上，对付男人要懂得分寸。其实这并不难，不要一味顺从，学会生气，学会吃醋，学会撒娇，学会野蛮。你越是难以掌握，他越是想靠近你征服你。即使再爱一个人，爱进骨子里，在对他施爱时也应该有张有弛。这样才会有健康美满的爱情。<br />
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<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>在爱情里，学着掌握主动权</strong></p>
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<p>　　怎样才可以让他更爱你呢?首先美丽依旧是不变的致命招数。女人要自己美丽自己，学会打扮，学会抓住男人的心。美丽，不是单纯的外表，而是要从心到外的改造过程。传说中孔雀翎是世间最致命的暗器，它出现时，就如同所有的鲜花在同时间开放，灿烂而眩目。对任何人来说，要想看住自己的爱人，就必须让自己像孔雀翎般灿烂，让他无瑕&ldquo;他&rdquo;顾。</p>
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<p>　　当然，如果有的男人实在太过分，当你忍无可忍时，你也可以选择使用武力。何况在现今，野蛮也已经成为一种潮流。你要时刻敲打你的男友，让他对你产生敬畏之情，如果真的实在无法挽回，你也不妨真的用拳头解决一下你的怒气，这样也不是未尝不可的，但切记不要把他打得太严重哦。</p>
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<p>　　有的女人视爱情如生命，他是她的全部和唯一，他的喜怒哀乐甚至一个喷嚏都能牵动她的心。两个人吵架，先低头的也是自己。正因为这样往往就会纵容他，让他更加骄傲和蛮横，以为你铁定不会离开他。太多的男人要比女人更富有创造力，他们往往不满足于拥有一次选择的机会，尤其是对自己死心塌地的女人他更不懂珍惜。因此，应该做个聪明的女人，减掉纵容，增加交际。</p>
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<p>　　除了他，你可以试着交往别的异性朋友，没有非分之想，能在受到委屈时拿胸口当沙包给你锤的，你也能帮他出主意追女朋友，并可以深夜里把他从床上揪起来去很远的地方接你。当然，要在对应的环境里面扮演适宜的角色，分清主次。一来可以丰富自己的生活，二来可以借机多了解一下男人，三来他如果真的在乎你，他就会设身处地的去体会你孤守一人世界时的滋味了。<br />
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<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>做个聪明的女人</strong></p>
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<p>　　如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。</p>
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<p>　　如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧勒死了他。</p>
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<p>　　当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，应该笑着说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。知道自己要什么，包括你爱的男人。认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力的工作。</p>
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<p>　　你可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你?疯狂的事情经历一次就好，比如翻越千山万水的去看望一个人。孤单的时候找好朋友聊天、逛街、吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。如果发短信息给你喜欢的人，他不回。不要再发。万一不小心喝醉了酒，不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。</p>
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<p>　　从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你?爱不爱你?他要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎你。平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。还有，不要24小时都想念同一个人，可以分一点给家人和朋友。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>做个聪明的女人</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>　　如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>　　如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧勒死了他。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>　　当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，应该笑着说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。知道自己要什么，包括你爱的男人。认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力的工作。</p>
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<p>　　你可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你?疯狂的事情经历一次就好，比如翻越千山万水的去看望一个人。孤单的时候找好朋友聊天、逛街、吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。如果发短信息给你喜欢的人，他不回。不要再发。万一不小心喝醉了酒，不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。</p>
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<p>　　从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你?爱不爱你?他要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎你。平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。还有，不要24小时都想念同一个人，可以分一点给家人和朋友。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 如果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻;如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。有固定的消遣场所，比如固定的咖啡馆、书店。让那个地方的服务生认识你，这样，你会在孤单时有个温暖的去处。不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。</p>
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<p>　　如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。</p>
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<p>　　如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。如果哪个男人说了让你难堪的话，原谅他。一个被原谅的男人最后会后悔失去一个像你这么宽容的女朋友。爱那个爱你的人，如果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你，趁早分开。女人不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，那么就先学会自己欣赏风景。</p>
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<p>　　在爱情里，要时刻学会做个睿智的女子，学会从容面对爱情也就学会了面对生活。积极面对生活，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。幸福不是靠命运，是靠自己掌握的。那么，从现在起，我们是不是该学着做一个聪明的女人了呢?</p>...
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        <title>Viva La Vida</title>
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        <title>Ne seront pas séparés(不会分离)</title>
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        <description><![CDATA[真的不会有分离吗?&nbsp;骗人的吧?!&nbsp;<br />
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永恒的爱情是人们美好的憧憬, <font face="Comic Sans MS">(Amour &eacute;ternel est une belle fantaisie, )</font><br />
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真的不会有分离吗? 也许真的存在!&nbsp;<br />
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两个人的心会永远在一起&hellip;(<font face="Comic Sans MS">Deux personnes cardiaques sera ensemble pour toujours&hellip;)<br />
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</font>真的很讨厌自己, 说到的却永远做不到,<br />
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希望有个人可以一直在我身边,&nbsp;<br />
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当拥有的时候, 我却自私地想霸占了他的自由&hellip;<br />
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<font face="Comic Sans MS"><font size="2">Comment puis-je ?<br />
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Je ne sais pas. <br />
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<font face="Comic Sans MS" color="#ff0000" size="2">ne <font style="COLOR: #e10900">la</font>isse pas le <font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font>emps <font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font>e d&eacute;cevoir<br />
ne peu<font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font> &ecirc;<font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font>re conquis<br />
dans <font style="COLOR: #e10900">la</font> <font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font>ris<font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font>esse dans <font style="COLOR: #e10900">la</font> douleur<br />
aujourd'hui, demain<br />
au fil du <font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font>emps le <font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font>emps c'es<font style="COLOR: #e10900">t</font> <font style="COLOR: #e10900">la</font> <font style="COLOR: #e10900">vie</font><br />
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        <pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:06:13 GMT</pubDate>

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        <title>“80后”招聘老公的测试题</title>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><font face="Arial">刚才无意中在上海热线看到了这个,觉得好玩,特地转载~~~~~~~~~~<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 小宝贝今年二十一，生得美丽又如花，如今也来择夫婿，先请大家来聚聚。<br />
</font><font face="Arial">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 呵呵，仿照小石头我也来招夫，虽不是金枝玉叶，但也是小家碧玉，有意者请做题，所有题都做出者即可入选。</font></p>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 一、智力<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1、水是什么颜色<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2、空气是什么味道<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3、糖是甜的吗&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4、盐是咸的吗<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5、醋是酸的吗<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 二、体格<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1、双手环抱电线杆用头猛撞30下<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2、双手吊于两米高的单杆上做倒挂金钩样3小时<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3、连做仰卧起坐300个<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4、长跑10000米<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5、做最丑的鬼脸一个<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; (以上体格题需在一天内做完)</p>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 三、仪表<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1、你认为你帅吗?(请陈述)<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2、你最喜欢你脸部的哪个部分?(请陈述)<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3、你每天照镜子吗?<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4、你每天梳头吗?<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5、你每天穿衣吗?<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 四、情感<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1、为我做首诗(抒情的)<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2、为我写封信(激情的)<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3、为我写首歌(狂热的)<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4、为我写本书(历史性的)<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5、为我买束花(也是最重要的)<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 五、学识<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1、宇宙是谁创造的?&nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2、太阳是谁放上去的?<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3、天空是谁发明的?<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4、颜色是谁发现的?<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5、是谁吃掉我的棉花糖的?<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 六、XX<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1、最想在洞房花烛夜做什么(写其感想)!!</p>...
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        <pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 11:06:01 GMT</pubDate>
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        <category>感情</category>

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        <title>欲望都市电影版</title>
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<p><font color="#800053"><img height="661" alt="sex_and_the_city.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/sex_and_the_city.jpg?t=1212058275" /></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">[Sex and the City: the Movie](欲望都市)</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">个人评分:B+</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">文/ 欲女蓝猫<img alt="" src="http://qqface.knowsky.com/wph/wph%20(126).gif" /></font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&ldquo;They say:</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&lsquo;Nothing lasts forever.&rsquo;</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><strong>&nbsp;Dreams change</strong><strong>，</strong></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;Trends come and go,</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;But friendships,</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;Never go out of style.&rdquo;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; -------Carrie</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img height="282" alt="sexSKYY.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/sexSKYY.jpg?t=1212058956" /></font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">(这张图实际是SKYY的广告,但我觉得实在是太好看了,比本片任何一张海报都强!)</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">在谈论影片之前，<strong>let me just say : It is Soooo Good to see the ladies are back in town!</strong> 不管电影中发生了什么，如果只找一个词来形容本片，只能是<strong>Fabulous! Fabulous! Fabulous!</strong></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">没有<strong>SATC</strong>(sex and the city) fans会对电影版感到失望，也不会有SATC fans会嫌它长，因为不管它究竟有多少缺点，真正的SATCfans只会为在四年之后看到<strong>Carrie、Miranda、Samantha和Charlotte</strong>再次在名牌服装、包包和鞋子的点缀下，谈笑风生、神采飞扬地并排走在曼哈顿街头、肆无忌惮地谈论着男人、爱情、婚姻、性和她们的私生活而欢呼。<strong>Sure, they are fabulous because of those shoes, purse, clothes。。。But in fact, the real thing makes them fabulous is their friendships!</strong></font></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0"><img height="0" loop="infinite" dynsrc="http://as20010.blog.ce.cn/sp1/momo/11123420410/1157685344449_20410.wma" width="0" border="0" alt="" src="http://as20010.blog.ce.cn/sp1/momo/11123420410/1157685344449_20410.wma" /></font></strong></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">影片的确不是从头到尾的欢娱，有痛彻心扉的心碎，有迷失，有愤怒，有绝望。。。直到40岁，爱情对这些女人仍然是一个谜，无论多努力都不会呈现她们想要的结局，不是因为她们笨，她们都曾是聪明绝顶的女人，但是她们恋爱了。。。。但最后她们最终都会重新振作起来，再次dress up for love，就因为无论何时，无论失去什么，她们都有彼此作最亲密最坚强的依靠。就像Carries说的，什么都会过时，惟有友情是永恒的潮流。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">电影版Sex and the City 仍然是以四个女人的感情生活作为主线，但它主要讲述的其实是四个女人之间的友谊，并重点讨论了婚姻与幸福之间不协调的矛盾关系，以及如何学会宽容与谅解，当然，不会拉下fashion，它是SATC永恒的主题。</font></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img alt="SexandtheCityNY.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/SexandtheCityNY.jpg?t=1212059609" /></font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ff6f6f"><strong>(</strong><strong>一)Not young but still fabulous!</strong></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">虽然岁月的年轮让四个女人从30岁过渡到40岁的年龄层，但她们看上去就像十年前一样，走到哪里仍然是无法让人回避的亮丽风景，因为她们的美从来就不是来自年轻，而是来自成熟、智慧与自信。虽然各自的生活相比以前发生了很多变化，有甜蜜，有泪水，但不变的是，无论发生什么，她们永远是女性中最坚强、最坦白、最强势的代表。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">SATC电影版就像是一道奢侈华丽的大餐，有诱人的开胃菜，浪漫妖娆、火辣性感；接着是丰富的正餐，有令人哽咽的低潮，但也不乏温暖的抚慰和动人的转折；当然绝对少不了的就是铺天盖地、源源不断送上前来的，名为<strong>Gucci, LV, D&amp;G, Chanel, Manolo Blahnik, Jimmy Choo, Vera Wong&hellip;.</strong>等令人眼花缭乱的甜点。结果是， 25岁以上女人和gay将会毫无例外地尽情享用，剩余的那些人，即便不愿意承认，也会&ldquo;秘密地&rdquo;望着这桌菜流口水。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">我相信很多人想再次看到SATC，并非真的关心每个人的爱情故事究竟会有什么结果，毕竟，只要想继续，故事如何都可以一直讲下去，无非就是所有爱情和婚姻中该经历的波澜轮番登场，并没有什么真的可以让观众吃惊的内容。我反而觉得大家更想看到的是SATC所具有的独特风格再次回归：纽约、时尚、性爱、女性关心的各种话题与四位女士一起，以最直白、犀利的方式再次出现在银幕上。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">SATC在世界范围内已经成为一种文化现象，可以说真正做到了前无古人后无来者，它之所以有如此大影响力，最主要的一点是，它是首次让女性有机会在大众媒体上，用最直接大胆的方式大谈sex和她们自己的一切真实感受，特别是那些单身女性，SATC成为了她们最强有力的代言者。本片的上映将再次证明，它独特的魅力和对女性的影响力、吸引力、认同感至今无可取代。当然每个观众喜欢SATC的理由不同，无论你是喜欢它所涉及的女权、性爱、时尚、婚姻、同性恋还是关于纽约这个城市的各种话题，这部电影版都不会让你失望。在原班人马的全力打造下，电影版延续了电视剧的所有优点，包括精彩幽默又直接大胆的对白、眼花缭乱的服饰、潮流又恰如其分的音乐、起伏转折的故事情节等，就像Indy4一样，有根据角色年龄调整的变化，但整体风格和基调都保持原汁原味。而且它包含了一个女人所能具有的所有情绪，惊喜，开心，兴奋，失落，难过。。。然后再次觉醒，你会在影院里听到女人笑，听到女人哭，听到女人叫。。(and some gay men too), 最重要的，作为一个女性观众，你发现影片中这些女人经历的看似离你很远，但实际相同的情绪都曾发生在自己身上过，或至少有一天，会发生在你身上，<strong>because no matter how much we hate it, we all are still searching for love and believe in love。</strong></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">虽然我承认有人说本片就像是把新拍的几集半小时连续剧连在一起看下来, 确实没错，但那是因为剧集当初就是依照电影的拍摄手法拍摄的，所以除了屏幕由小变大外，直观感受绝对不会有太大变化。可以肯定的说，从剧本写作和整个视觉感受上，本次电影版都强于近五年来所有的其他爱情轻喜剧类型电影，无疑将巩固SATC在女性观众心中的地位。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff6f6f"><strong>(二）</strong><strong>From 30 something to 40 something</strong></font></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&ldquo;Year after year, twenty-something women come to New York City in search of the two &ldquo;L&rdquo;s: Labels and Love. Twenty years ago, I was one of them. Having gotten the knack for labels early&hellip;I concentrated on love.&rdquo;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; --------Carrie</font></strong></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">连Carrie都变老花眼了，不承认老也不行， SACT十年走过来，有些变化是不可避免的：</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#a20983"><strong>1</strong> <strong>Away from the Bar</strong></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#a20983"></font></strong>&nbsp;</p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">首先，人过了四十岁，不能再像以前那样继续游戏人间了，原因很简单，随着年龄的增长，本身的&ldquo;市场价值&rdquo;在降低,这是无法避免的事实。四十岁的女人可以&ldquo;选择对象&rdquo;的范围又比以前缩小了更多，与其继续&ldquo;挑三检四&rdquo;不如把握好到手的幸福。于是，我们不会在电影版中再看到四位欲女徘徊在纽约那些名叫什么&ldquo;Chaos&rdquo; 、&ldquo;Denial&rdquo;等时髦、拥挤的酒吧里彻夜狂欢，端着鸡尾酒四处搭讪、寻找下一个&ldquo;涉猎&rdquo;目标，而是更多地看到她们与&ldquo;固定&rdquo;的对象老老实实呆在家里，处理着各自二人世界中发生的琐事，因为这些已经够她们烦的了。<strong>But of course, there will still be cosmopolitans (the red martini), only when the ladies are truly happy and being themselves</strong></font></p>
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<p><font color="#c109a6"><strong>2</strong> <strong>Lack of sex</strong></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#c109a6"></font></strong>&nbsp;</p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">另外，那些想看到&ldquo;陌生男子&rdquo;像走马灯一样轮番出现在女主角们床上的人恐怕要失望了，就连我们最horny的Samantha在与癌症搏斗之后，也戒掉了以前灯红酒绿、&ldquo;卧室如集市&rdquo;的生活，虽然这不代表她不想四处尝鲜，只是她选择用甜食、宠物和偷窥作为代替品，试图压抑依然旺盛的欲望，为的是报答那个帮助她度过癌症的人，而且她工作之外的大部分时间都花在从LA到纽约的飞机上了。而其他几位要么忙着结婚，要么忙着分居，要么忙着怀孕，&ldquo;忙&rdquo;导致的<strong>s</strong>ex严重缺乏造成的后果成了影片剧情展开的核心。甚至Talk sex也因为&ldquo;孩子&rdquo;的介入而变得没有那么随便起来，有时候甚至要使用&ldquo;代号&rdquo;。除了一个始终以&ldquo;裸体&rdquo;姿态出现的 &ldquo;邻居&rdquo;偶尔挑逗一下Samantha本来就脆弱的神经外，男性角色的数量稳定地保持在四个。所以，虽然sex仍然是影片的核心之一，但random sex已被仍进垃圾桶，更多的是集中讨论sex频率对于维系婚姻或稳定恋情的重要性。也就是说，以前剧集中频繁地以&ldquo;玩笑&rdquo;姿态出现的sex，在本片中变得不再那么乐趣无穷，而是蒙上了沉重而严肃的色彩<strong>，&ldquo;Make fun of sex; make sex fun&rdquo;</strong>这个主题已随岁月的流逝渐渐淡去，这是影片最大的变化，虽然无奈，但也无法避免。<strong>But, luckily, we always have Samantha, and she is always fun to watch! <img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/005.gif" /></strong></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">And chear up, yes, there are still tits and penis !</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img height="298" alt="002509176754.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/002509176754.jpg?t=1212059488" /></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#c109a6">3 Change of the roles</font></strong></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">随着年龄的增长，四位女性在职业、生活中扮演的&ldquo;角色&rdquo;也发生了变化，她们个人的事业、需求、追求和自由都&ldquo;消失不见&rdquo;，剩下的都是作妈妈、作妻子、作女友的烦恼。影片中对四女工作、购物、聚会等描述都减少，因为时间的关系，重点都集中在了她们的爱情生活上，似乎，对于四十几岁的女人，爱情和家庭成为了女人的全部，昔日女强人的潇洒被&ldquo;缺少爱，缺少性，缺少安全感&rdquo;的惶恐所代替。这与年龄的增长也分不开，毕竟二十、三十岁是&ldquo;追求期&rdquo;，追求理想、事业、爱情、自我。现在她们的自主性大大降低，即便面对爱情或婚姻的破裂，也不能拍拍屁股走人，而是要留下处理孩子、房子、舆论等一堆&ldquo;后遗症&rdquo;。生活对她们来说变得比以前复杂很多，这些女人寻找的也不再是简单的欲望满足，而是一种平静的、有依靠的生活。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0"></font>&nbsp;</p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">Carrie不再是专栏作家，而是一心专攻写书的女作家，而且整片都在围绕&ldquo;婚礼&rdquo;而忙活，不是筹备婚礼就是收拾残局，根本没时间写任何东西。令我最遗憾的就是在影片中极少再见到她坐在电脑前或爬在床上敲着字的样子，也不再有那么多带着&ldquo;问号&rdquo;的句子出现在银幕上，唯一她打的单词就是LOVE，还不知道究竟应该给它一个&ldquo;终结号&rdquo;还是&ldquo;延续号&rdquo;。好在影片保留了Carrie内心读白作为旁白的模式，让人们仍然不断听到她熟悉的声音诉说着内心的无奈与挣扎。在原来剧集中，Carrie是唯一没有裸露过的一位，这次也不会看到裸露，甚至连内衣都看不到，因为她根本没有性爱戏码，有的只是屡试不爽、永不疲倦的Kiss。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0"></font>&nbsp;</p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">Miranda虽然仍是律师，但再没有时间看到她穿工作装时神采飞扬的样子，五岁的儿子和出轨的丈夫已经让她焦头懒额。除了态度上的强硬、言语上的犀利未变外，Miranda要比以前更加脆弱，而且是本次受折磨最多的一个，爱情、友情，甚至是&ldquo;unwanted hair&rdquo;都在找她的麻烦，面临的伤害远多于快乐。不过Miranda也比以前更加懂得包容，面对背叛、失望、自责、懊悔等情绪都能较快地从阴影中走出，用勇敢和宽容去面对一切。当看到她在布鲁克林大桥上再次展放出灿烂的笑容，再次拥抱爱和幸福的时候，每个人才会看到那个刚强外表下隐藏的小女人。由于Miranda的戏份在本次相对其他配角都多，而且Cynthia Nixon表现十分出色，如果本次有演员会在表演上受到肯定，应该非她莫数。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">Samantha已经从纽约搬去了LA，工作性质也发生转变，成为了明星男友Smith的个人经济人，性生活大大减少的同时因为离开了纽约那个她熟悉的乐土也失去了大展拳脚的空间，在片中为及时参与女人们的对话，而需不断往返与LA和NYC之间。不过她对性的欲望和各种花花心思仍然不少，比如&ldquo;裸体寿司&rdquo;情人节大餐这一招还是具有典型的Samantha特色，我等普通人最多也就是自己做寿司给男友吃，能把寿司作为性挑逗工具，点缀在自己酮体上，恐怕没有一定功力是做不出来的。每到这时，就让俺无限佩服Samantha，男友如果被这样的女人抢走，不服输都不行。最可喜的是，Samantha仍然没改变她一贯的幽默，很少在爱情喜剧中找到每次说话做事都有笑点的角色，但Samantha只要一张开嘴，you always will be surprised！<img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/003.gif" /></font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0"></font>&nbsp;</p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">Charlotte成为了戏份相对较少的一个，除了个别的尴尬情形外，她是唯一没有经历任何波澜的人。不过以往很重视个人感受和喜好的她，现在将全部焦点转移到了中国养女和肚中的孩子，从爱作梦的&ldquo;公主&rdquo;进化成了&ldquo;全职妈妈&rdquo;。不知是否故意讽刺，一直以来都以&ldquo;品位高雅&rdquo;著称的Charlotte却给自己的两个女儿取名&ldquo;Lily&rdquo;和 &ldquo;Rose&rdquo;<img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/033.gif" />，恰好是英文名中最俗气、常被认为用在妓女身上的两个名字，也许也在侧面说明她自从嫁给Harry后，口味和生活态度都平民化了。But what do I know, &ldquo;Lily&rdquo; and &ldquo;Rose&rdquo; may soon back in style!</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">从电视剧到电影，剧情的完整性自然也很重要，这次我们将看到四位女士度过圣诞、新年、情人节等传统节日，这些在以前的电视剧中都未出现过。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img height="335" alt="1024x768_SATC_3.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/1024x768_SATC_3.jpg?t=1212058965" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><strong><font color="#ff6f6f">（三）Forgiveness</font></strong><strong><font color="#ff6f6f">，marriage and love</font>(本段有剧透,不过,俺并不认为这片有什么不能透的)</strong></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&ldquo;After years of living in the city I assumed that if my friends and I ever got our fairy tale endings that would be the end of the story. But real life---always has a twist,&rdquo;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;-------Carrie</font></strong></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">SACT的一个宗旨就是&ldquo;世上没有童话&rdquo;，专门扮演一巴掌扇醒那些爱作梦女人的角色。无论什么时候，谁觉得自己的生活完美到令人嫉妒了，麻烦就要来了。电影版自然也要继续这个主题。虽然说本片一直希望在上映前保持神秘，不透露过多内容，但其实真没什么&ldquo;不能说的秘密&rdquo;。Trailer和那些网上流传的视频、图片都讲得也差不多了。我们不是在看&ldquo;悬疑片&rdquo;或&ldquo;恐怖片&rdquo;，对于爱情喜剧，不会有什么重大爆点或不可思议的事情发生。何况作为夏季大片，死人这种情况基本不会出现，就像导演自己说的，&ldquo;大夏天的，俺干嘛给别人找不痛快呢？&rdquo;会死人的片都留在秋冬上档呢。所以，不说大家也知道，就像所有的爱情喜剧一样，它必定是圆满的，就算是中间有起有落，无非就是多设些障碍让主人公没那么容易就得到幸福，无非就是告诉我们婚姻不意味着幸福，而意味着更多。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">而Jessica口中Carrie的&ldquo;serious loss&rdquo;，well，至于是否觉得是 &ldquo;重大损失&rdquo;就要分人了，对于40岁以上的女人，熬了这么久终于等到了属于自己的婚礼，一切都很完美，唯一缺陷就是&ldquo;新郎没来&rdquo;，这发生在谁身上，感受估计都跟被卡车压过去一般。而对于Carrie来说，更重要的是，穿着Vivienne Westwood上万元的完美婚纱(见上图)，在全纽约人和所有Vogue读者都知道她将结束单身生活的完美婚礼上被一个耍了她十年的男人再次甩了，更恐怖的是，她已经无家可归了，更更恐怖的是，她连蜜月的钱都交了。。。这可以说是人生最大的羞辱，吃子弹都无法形容的痛苦。所以对她来说，的确是&ldquo;serious loss&rdquo;---Loss the opportunity to be the perfect bride she always wanted to be。但是在偶看来，没有人死掉，没有人残废，就永远算不上严重损失，也够不成悲剧，更何况，那Vivienne Westwood是白给的<img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/033.gif" />。。。well, girl, you just can&rsquo;t have it all!至少生活是这么告诉我们的，谁也别想最终得到所有想得到的东西。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img alt="alg_sex-city.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/alg_sex-city.jpg?t=1212058289" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">(这张图代表的内容事实上在youtube上很早就有视频了)</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">如果说以前的剧集讲的是四个女人寻找爱的过程,那么现在则是&quot;当她们找到爱后发生的事情&quot;.很显然,找到爱不一定等于就幸福美满了.观众已从Trailer里看出的，Carrie的婚礼和Miranda的婚姻受到了威胁，而且也隐约能预测最后结局会如何收场，现在要了解的是，两个大罪人Mr Big和Steve究竟为什么要犯下&ldquo;不可原谅&rdquo;的错误，而两位女性又是如何从&ldquo;决不饶恕&rdquo;到&ldquo;再给你一次机会&rdquo;的。影片是否得到观众认可有部分就是来自编剧是否能把这两点编得有说服力。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">编剧在片中通过Carrie和Miranda要展示的不是爱情的脆弱，而是有了爱情并不等于有美满的婚姻这一事实。有时候造成婚姻出现问题的不是爱情本身，人性的欲望、软弱、感情用事和彼此之间的交流障碍都是可能破坏婚姻和幸福的罪魁祸首。也可以说，有了爱情，不等于有了幸福。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">面对爱情，似乎人能做出很多无法用逻辑或理性解释的举动，有时甚至难以分清是一时冲动还是一种习惯，不过我个人认为，编剧还算比较成功的完成了这次&ldquo;制造麻烦再解决麻烦&rdquo;的过程，至少我可以接受他为&ldquo;犯错&rdquo;和&ldquo;原谅&rdquo;准备的理由。如果你不能接受，就琢磨一句最简单的话：爱情是没有逻辑可寻的，在它面前，所有人都是傻子，都可能做出错事，也都可能被原谅。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img height="302" alt="002509176572.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/002509176572.jpg?t=1212059338" /></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&ldquo;We are perfectly happy before we decide to live happily-ever-after.&rdquo;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ----------Carrie</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">从以前的故事中我们就知道Mr Big是那种容易逃避责任，不愿意被束缚的人，即便五十多岁了，在心智上仍没成熟，特别是经历了两次失败婚姻后，对婚姻心存恐惧也容易理解。但是编剧并没有简单地把所有责任全都推到Big身上，毕竟经历了这么多次分分合合，观众在剧集结束时已被Big那句&ldquo;Carrie, you&rsquo;re the one&rdquo;说服，认为他们之间的真爱是存在的。因此，编剧必须明确的是，Big要逃避的、所畏惧的并非是Carrie，而是婚姻本身。特别是当Carrie将婚礼操办得很盛大时，婚礼作为&ldquo;婚姻&rdquo;的象征愈加明显地让Big感到压力大得喘不过气来。而同时，编剧让Carrie在此时被幸福冲昏头脑，开始放肆地自我膨胀，并在外因干扰下，完全&ldquo;忽略&rdquo;了Big的感受。其实Big的心思编剧早已做了充足铺垫，他积极为两人寻找住处、不惜花大钱买下高档住宅并给Carrie一个像房间那么大的衣橱，说明他毫无疑问希望与Carrie生活在一起，但是他并没有真正&ldquo;求婚&rdquo;，反而是Carrie提出，他只应和了一句&ldquo;OK. I wouldn&rsquo;t mind being marry to you!&rdquo;，甚至没有戒指或正式的订婚仪式，如此&ldquo;随意&rdquo;的&ldquo;协定&rdquo;就使得Carrie以为结婚是两人都想要的，而对于Big来说，其实只是无奈地应付着生硬的程序。就像他说&ldquo;I want you, that&rsquo;s what I want,&rdquo;但Carrie没有&ldquo;听见&rdquo;，她就像大部分女人一样，她要一个婚礼，而且是她一直梦想的完美婚礼。在大部分时候，男方在婚礼的事情上都处于被动，由女方主导，似乎也不会出什么问题，但换作Big，一个老容易出&ldquo;各种状况&rdquo;的人，在这种情况下作出临阵脱逃的事情也并不意外。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#c109a6">Questions:</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">1该不该责备他？我相信是女人都会唾弃他的行为，但冥冥中我们似乎又理解他为什么这样做。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">2该不该原谅他？理解并不代表接受。我不相信每个女人都能像Carrie那样经得起Big如此一而再再而三的折腾。就像Carrie以前说的，她和Big的关系就像是一场S&amp;M，一个愿打一个愿挨。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#a20983"><strong>What we can learn</strong><strong>：</strong></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">1当男方没有主动求婚的时候，特别是没有钻戒为证的情况下，最好不要轻易相信一些&ldquo;口头协定&rdquo;。婚姻不是随便聊天时的戏言，即便钻戒不能代表一切，至少代表对方有为说出的承诺付出&ldquo;一定代价&rdquo;，好过口说无凭。钻戒没有，一个像卧室那么大的衣橱也可以考虑，实在不行，500美圆以上的Manolo Blahnik尚可作为替代品。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">2 婚礼只是个形式，即便对方再有钱，也要双方详细协商后再决定怎么办，而不要一方完全包办</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">3 在结婚前不要卖掉自己的房产，以防&ldquo;发生意外&rdquo;后没地方住，虽然这显示出了对对方的不信任，但作为女人，还是给自己留条后路为妙，不要最后弄得自己过于狼狈。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">4 怎么才能让新郎不逃跑呢？要么结婚当天请人去用绳子把他绑来，要么提前先把证领了，婚礼实在让人毫无安全感。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img height="310" alt="002509176288.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/002509176288.jpg?t=1212059288" /></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&ldquo;I thought to have a family so that I don&rsquo;t end up alone at the New Years Eve with Chinese food. But now I still end up alone at the New Years Eve with Chinese food! &rdquo;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;----------Miranda</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">如果说Big的作法还算在意料之中，Steve作了罪人的确有些出乎意料，他和Miranda的故事反而是让我最难过的。这个一直以来以老实、可靠、热情、善良形象出现的小男人，本来是我在本剧中最喜欢的角色。对于编剧选中他作为&ldquo;靶子&rdquo;让我很不开心，甚至觉得替他委屈，难道就不能让我们这些观众觉得，世界上有可能存在&ldquo;完美的男人&rdquo;和&ldquo;完美的婚姻&rdquo;？是的，绝对不能，为了强烈打击我们这些yy者，且以婚后出轨作为主题，Charlotte与Miranda中必须牺牲一个，相比来说，拿后者&ldquo;开刀&rdquo;的确更容易理解。因为Miranda的工作忙碌、本身就以事业为重的特点，为婚姻出现裂痕创造了很好的条件，且Miranda本身看上去也比Charlotte更能承受得住这类打击。原本我觉得他们是最完美的一对，结果转眼间，就分住桥两端了，怎能不让人感叹&ldquo;Marriage ruined everything&rdquo; ?而当然，Steve也同样不能成为背全责的人，他与Miranda之间的爱情同样并非是编剧要提出质疑的对象，这里要讨论的是sex 对于维持婚姻的重要性和破坏性。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#c109a6">Questions:</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">1婚后性生活频率究竟多少是正常？多少就会有可能导致有人出轨？</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">2如果发现对方出轨，你是否能容忍和原谅？能原谅（准许）这样的事情发生几次？</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">我以前一直都觉得是&ldquo;不可饶恕&rdquo;，but if it is Steve, I will do exactly what Miranda did.</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">3还有，如果你是那个出轨的人，你会主动承认吗？</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#a20983"><strong>What We Can Learn</strong><strong>：</strong></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">1请严重重视婚后性生活质量, even you are really tired &hellip;all the time&hellip;.</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">2 Never say &ldquo; Let&rsquo;s just get over it!&rdquo; during sex.</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">3 与其之后一直道歉，不如一开始就不要干需要道歉的事情。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">4 如果万一真的干了，唯一能做的只有一直道歉。。。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">5 如何决定是否原谅，片中专家的那个方法很好，选个时间和地点，在此之前不要相见，仔细想清楚后，如果仍然需要对方，同意原谅，就出现在选好的地方，那一刻起，一切发生过的都不要再回头看了。</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">Forgiveness是个复杂的话题，不到自己遇到，永远不知道自己是否能做到。Steve在片中讲了一句话，他说结婚时的誓言中有一句&ldquo;Promise to love someone , for better or for worse.&rdquo;这就是婚姻对&ldquo;宽容&rdquo;的定义。然而真正能做到这点的又有几人呢？如果一方首先破坏了&ldquo;loyal&rdquo;那条誓言，另一方是否应该继续信守这些根本没有被当真的誓言呢？</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img alt="hr_Sex_and_the_City_14.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/hr_Sex_and_the_City_14.jpg?t=1212059115" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">(片中除婚纱外最好看的裙子)</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ff6f6f">（四）The Fashion and the ads</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&ldquo;Just your typical day. Breakfast with Balenciaga. Mid-morning coffee with Vivienne Westwood. Lunch with Lacroix&hellip;and de la Renta. And for dessert---Karl Lagefeld&rdquo;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#bf93ec">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; --------Carries</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">为了让诸位时尚爱好者们兴奋地哇哇乱叫，口水横流，影片的故事中有很多都是故意设计的情节，就用来展示&ldquo;Fashion&rdquo;这本片第五号女主角。Vogue杂志特地在片中插一脚，要求Carrie 参与&ldquo;40岁新娘&rdquo;的专题拍摄，还起名&ldquo;The Last Single Girl&rdquo;，原因是年龄再大就上不了杂志了。。。。真的Vogue杂志前不久也确实登出了影片中拍摄的部分婚纱照，只见Carrie在片中有穿Vera Wong, Dior, Vivienne Westwood&hellip;等七八件超级昂贵的婚纱（这一&ldquo;等&rdquo;就&ldquo;等&rdquo;出去很多世界知名品牌，米办法，俺是时尚白痴，听到了都不知道怎么写。。。），俺只能说，您就等着尖叫吧，Those dresses are not all perfect but enough to die for&hellip;.特别是最后让Carrie穿着受辱的Vivienne Westwood，在Carrie拍照时显得尤其华丽，完美到会让你一刹那间有 &ldquo;就为这裙子，爱情新郎皆可抛。。。&rdquo; 的危险想法。不过后来婚礼时，Carrie往头上插了只鸟儿，效果顿时差很多，感觉为它丢了新郎就有点不值了。不过就像Carrie说的，&ldquo;它太完美了，我宁愿把它埋起来也舍不得扔。&rdquo;&hellip;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">当然，Manolo Blahnik，在Carrie心中比钻石都重要的这款鞋子是一定少不了的，而且它的作用重要到什么程度，相信诸位看过就明白了，跟魔戒一样，One pair of shoes, can solve everything&hellip;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">服装表演自然是fashion最好的展示方式，Carries首先在家把自己的衣服穿个遍，还要别人一旁打分数，然后在纽约时装周上，我们将看到最正宗的走台秀。可以肯定的是，Fashion与Joy对女人来说是并存的，凡是片中大规模展现时尚风采的时候，影片基调也变得欢快起来，音乐、画面、一切都变得如此激动人心，只有这时，四个女人才是最快乐的，在Gucci, Chanel, Louis Vuitton面前，什么男人？统统都被扔到外太空了！<img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/002.gif" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img height="298" alt="002508348177.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/002508348177.jpg?t=1212059453" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">偶不是善于写时尚的那类人，请赎偶孤落寡闻，影片中出现的服装，如果没有恰好照到商标的话，俺是打死也认不出来是什么牌子的，不过相信总会有时尚达人日后将会把所有里面出现的衣服、包包和鞋子是什么牌子都罗列出来，咱们尽管期待着吧。值得一提的是，影片中俺觉得服装最抢眼的反而是Samantha而不是Carrie, 包括她那身sushi&ldquo;透明装&rdquo;在内，Samantha似乎衣服换得最勤快，而且有很多耀眼的金黄色，可能跟她成为好莱坞富婆有关。还有Trailer中那个超大号的帽子，专门用来偷窥男邻居用的，非常好用，可以有效遮住&ldquo;欲罢不能&rdquo;的表情。Carrie则是既展现了最光鲜亮丽的一面，也展现了最糟糕恐怖的一面，如果比赛&ldquo;女人卸妆后差别最大的是？&rdquo;，她一定能胜出。不过这就是Carrie, 她从来不畏惧看到真正的自己，她反而是怕丢掉了真正的自己，只有当她找回自我时，才能打起精神，恢复元气，再上路。Miranda的职业装减少，但时尚品位有所提高，不过因为她的角色连翻经历低潮，所以大部分她的衣服都是选择黑色为主。Charlotte 仍然是淑女打扮，因为养了女儿和太多狗，原本白色为主的家里变到处&ldquo;粉红&rdquo;。感觉四人中变化最小的就是她，似乎四年根本没在她脸上留下任何痕迹，走路说话还像个小女生。男士们的穿着也不错，特别是婚礼前的晚宴及婚礼当天，所有男士的西装都值得女生们好好打量一番（Steve仍然是永远没有西装穿的可怜人），即便忙着恨Big，仍然很难不注意到，这个男人穿黑色就是没治的好看。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">广告，是本片中戏份最多的一个角色，比谁都常见。除了时尚商品外，从矿泉水到鸡尾酒，从杂志到手机，几乎每个镜头里都有&ldquo;商标&rdquo;在眼前晃动，不过这也没什么不好，反而帮助认识了不少品牌。喜欢城市的人，永远对物质、商业性质浓郁的氛围不会讨厌，这是纽约曼哈顿，一个广告牌打得比电影屏幕还大的城市，一个广告牌形成独特艺术风景的城市，不是德州乡村，所以越商业越现代化越有纽约的感觉。当然影片中还出现了LA 和墨西哥，个人感觉并非十分喜欢这样的安排，让影片的&ldquo;纽约感&rdquo;被削弱，the sunshine, the palm tree, the beach&hellip;..so not New York！虽然增加了别样风情，但失去了SATC原来的味道。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img height="298" alt="002380285455.jpg picture by mofalanmao" width="447" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/002380285455.jpg?t=1212059195" /></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ff6f6f">（五）The Writing</font></strong></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">有个人得好好说说，他就是本片和本剧集的幕后功臣，Michael Patrick King（俺叫他&ldquo;the women king&rdquo;!），很多人都不知道这样一个如此女人的影视作品居然是一个男人一手包办的，除了继续作制片外，他更是电影版的编剧兼导演。Yes, he is gay, so what? 应该感谢上帝他是gay，如果他是straight guy, SATC还不定被整成什么垃圾了呢。我还没见过一个异性恋男人能把女人的故事讲好、讲到位过。就像Michael Patrick King说的，以前的影视都是多从男人角度出发，女性相关的也多替结婚的人和传统观念说话，没人站出来为单身女性讲话，所以SATC就是专门为这些被忽略，被压抑的一群人量身定做的。Thanks to him, 我们有了自己的代言人。Michael Patrick King也是一个优秀的编剧，他的很多对白写得非常经典、入时，甚至经常发明新兴表达方式，特别贴近纽约女的生活，相信看过剧集的都明白。而他的幽默，往往能让男女观众都开怀大笑，即便有些玩笑有明显的以大女人姿态，贬低男性之嫌。他在本片中依然充分显示出强悍的对白功力，即便是第一次拍电影，也算是对RC这种类型驾轻就熟，比任何其他同类型都更能抓住观众心，因为他很彻底、放松地让女人讲她们想讲的任何话，而不是像其他电影人，总让女人作个倾听者。在Michael Patrick King这里，女人和gay都是主角，只有男人才能作花瓶。<strong>So, women and gays will keep loving him&hellip;for better or for worse!<img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/002.gif" /></strong></font></p>
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<p><font color="#ff6f6f"><strong>(</strong><strong>六) Dress Up for the movie</strong></font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">SATC电影版的上映是今夏一件大事，其受瞩目程度不比Indy的回归小。New York Times表示，已有很多纽约女在网上老早就定了&ldquo;团票&rdquo;，并在30日当晚，NYC很多地方都会举办SATC观影派对，女人们看完电影后将一起去参加，庆祝SATC的归来。WB的市场调查显示，当晚很多女人都会结伴去看本片，也就是说，观众将绝大部分是大团大团的姐妹淘，而不是情侣或家人。而其中20岁以上女性将占大部分。而且据调查，这些女人们都将打扮得很漂亮去看电影，除了因为之后要参加派对外，也是对本片的时尚特征，及本片中出现的那些labels的一种致敬。<strong>30日 is gonna be a lady&rsquo;s night. A lot of women will dress up and go to see Sex and the City together, gossip about men, fashion, sex and &hellip;friendships!</strong></font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">偶估计周末三天票房大概在50million左右。</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ff6f6f"><strong>（七）</strong><strong>The Tone of Sex and the City</strong></font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">强烈推荐一下本片的电影原声，官方网站有试听，或Youtube、Sogou之！<strong>Fergie的[Lables or love]</strong>是第一主打，自然最能体现SATC的时尚曲风，也融入该剧主题曲的基本调子，只是说Fergie是最适合人选。但是因为本片有很大部分处于心情低潮期，就比较无法从这首歌来体现了。而<strong>India Arie 的[The Heart of the Matters]</strong>则突现了Forgiveness的主题。<strong>Mairi Campbell 的[Auld Lang Syne]</strong>出现在新年之夜,天籁般的歌声带出宁静与伤感,伴随着展现的是各位主角或幸福或难过的新年之夜,但是他们都在那晚试图让自己不再孤单.这段歌曲可能会让很多人流泪.<strong>Jennifer Hudson的[All Dressed in Love]</strong>则是最后将影片推向情绪最高潮，在狂欢的喧闹中庆祝四个女人重新回到她们精彩的生活。Hudson小姐演出的角色其实很小，虽然不是很有必要，但至少起到了帮助抚平伤口的作用，而她的嗓音又多大穿透力和爆发力，俺们都在Dreamgirls中见识过了。。。<strong>Morningwood 的[New York Girls]</strong>则出现在纽约时装周的走台秀，也是Carrie复苏的标志。<strong>Jem的[It's amazing]</strong>也很值得推荐!</font></p>
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<p><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;<img alt="100207sex03400x400qk0.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/100207sex03400x400qk0.jpg?t=1212058837" /></font></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#ff6f6f">(八)The Friendships</font></strong></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#dcb7f2">&quot;Life doesn't turn out to be your fantacies. That's why you need friendships that are real to get you through it all.&quot;</font></strong></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#dcb7f2">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ----------Carrie</font></strong></p>
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<p>从本片来看,Carrie是个离开朋友帮助几乎无法生存的人,这次如果不是Charletto收留她,不是Miranda为她办理房屋的法律手续将住处拿回,不是Samantha帮助她筹备婚礼又打点一切婚礼大战留下的&quot;残骸&quot;, Carrie would not survive from it.同时,也体现出Miranda与Samantha两人的强势,就像carrie说的,&quot;You two could run the world!&quot;这让我不禁很羡慕她,有这些朋友真好.</p>
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<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">In the end, it seems love cannot conquer it all but friendships can. The four women will just live happily-ever-after with each other , in New York, and all be 50 and still fabulous!</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">No Question Mark!<img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/040.gif" /></font></strong></p>
<p><strong></strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">PS: Samantha has proved by herself that 50 is the new 25. Single ladies, if ever someone dared to come to you and said &ldquo;You should get married, you are 25 (or order)!&rdquo; Just say &ldquo;Fuck You!&rdquo; loudly and clearly, right in front of her/his face. Remember that, as long as you want, no one can stop you being single and fabulous! </font></strong></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">我最喜欢的Sara Jessica Parker穿过的裙子(除了上面婚纱外):</font></strong></p>
<p><strong></strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&nbsp;</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="ee080317017-1.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/ee080317017-1.jpg?t=1212058906" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">Vogue photo shot at the Central Park (好像是Dolce&amp;Gabbana的裙子)</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="satc3.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/satc3.jpg?t=1212059171" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="satc.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/satc.jpg?t=1212059187" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="img08.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/img08.jpg?t=1212059234" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="PremiereSexAndThe4.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/PremiereSexAndThe4.jpg?t=1212059775" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">At the NYC premiere</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="PremiereSexAnThe.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/PremiereSexAnThe.jpg?t=1212059898" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">超爱这个裙子!!<img alt="" src="http://blogimg.sinajs.cn/images/control/face/006.gif" />不知道是什么牌子的</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="voguesarahjessicaparkergu6.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/voguesarahjessicaparkergu6.jpg?t=1212060177" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">这个是Nina Ricci的裙子,在Plaza Hotel in NYC</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="SexAndThe.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/SexAndThe.jpg?t=1212060095" /></font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0">Big is not a bad guy in real life and he only drives Toyota^_^</font></p>
<p><font color="#ffb0b0"><img alt="sexandthecity2.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/sexandthecity2.jpg?t=1212060354" /></font></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#ffdfdf" size="4">All&nbsp;About Sex and the City</font></strong></p>
<p><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>文/魔法蓝猫</strong>&nbsp; <img alt="" src="http://qqface.knowsky.com/wph/wph%20(157).gif" /></font></p>
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<p><strong><font color="#c7c7c7"><img height="0" loop="infinite" dynsrc="http://upload.lonelylive.cn/Songs/v1/FE/73/35765_425345_India.Arie-The+Heart+Of+The+Matter.wma?as=WJy89B_St89rs21SSAFqkw;;" width="0" border="0" alt="" src="http://upload.lonelylive.cn/Songs/v1/FE/73/35765_425345_India.Arie-The+Heart+Of+The+Matter.wma?as=WJy89B_St89rs21SSAFqkw;;" /></font></strong></p>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">&ldquo;New York City is all about sex. </font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">People who getting it, </font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">People who trying to get it </font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">And people who can&rsquo;t get it.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">No wonder the city never sleeps.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">It&rsquo;s too busy trying to get laid.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">But if you ever actually do manage to get someone in bed,</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">The real fun begins&hellip;&hellip;.&rdquo;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Whenever you hear these words said by the very sexy voice of <span>Sarah Jessica Parker, you know what you are watching&hellip;</span></font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="sex_and_the_city02_ci.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/sex_and_the_city02_ci.jpg?t=1210588978" /></font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">首先要说明的是，本篇博不是在写电影版的，I haven&rsquo;t seen it since they haven&rsquo;t set up a screening yet. 我只是觉得作为该剧的super fan，在电影版出来前，应该先好好的总结一下以前的部分，毕竟电影版是与以前相接的，对于以前部分看得不是很明白或没看过或刚好想了解更细致系统的人，也许本文会有一定用处的，我保证你能从下面找到些有趣的东西。</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">有一大本彩色书，名叫<strong><font color="#ffff00">[Sex and the City: Kiss and Tell]</font></strong>是一本可以叫做Bible的书，我相信很多人可能没看过，它包括这个剧所有内容，从制作到幕后，到每集剧情，到角色分析，到一些有趣的名词解释，和剧中所有出现的纽约好玩的地方，主角们到过的地方，住的地方，穿的衣服，everything about Sex and the City，有大量彩色图和文字。只可惜，我想中国国内应该不太能买到，即使有外文书店，怕也难以引进这本，所以我在下面摘录了里面很多精彩内容，加上我的想法，意见，和整理 （即便是摘录的文字也是自己一字字敲进去的，网上找不到直接复制的内容，所以请尊重别人的劳动哦）。虽然这不是第一次写这个show了，但绝对是最全面最细致的一次。I guarantee you will learn a lot!</font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">开始前，以下几类人不适合阅读本文，符合条件者请马上离开：</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">1 本博文被&ldquo;蓝猫分级制度&rdquo;评为R级，与MPAA的不同，俺这里R级即18岁以下读者禁止阅读，so , if you are under 18, or you are older than 18 but still want to be 18, OUT! NOW!!</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">2 本博文文字大部分是英文，因为一方面我觉得这样才能写出本剧&ldquo;出色&rdquo;的地方，第二我主要是自己留着用的，第三，my father，who can not read English but definitely can read Chinese,&nbsp;is regularly reading my blog; 第四，帮助那些想学英文的人，所以如果你是讨厌英文，也不愿意读英文的人，OUT! NOW!! </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">3 本博文全都是关于Sex and the City这个剧的，所以如果您对它没兴趣，根本没打算看的话，OUT! NOW!!</font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">最后，有三个错误观点要纠正一下</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">1 Sex and the City一共有六季，不是七季，国内盗版做成了七季。</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">2 Sex and the City不是sitcom, 它不是在一个室内拍摄的情景剧，也没现场观众大声陪笑，也不是用很多摄影机，而是像电影一样，用一台机器拍摄，室内室外均有，所有制作方式都接近电影，当时制片人把它卖给HBO，一个条件就是要做成电影式的电视剧。</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">3 Sex and the City这个剧最主要和最精彩也是最惹人爱的东西不是sex，而是这个剧的剧本写得实在精彩，我指的主要是语言对白部分。如果你没感到，是因为你可能没有看英文字幕，而是看的中文字墓，翻译水平会影响你的理解和对它的评价，很多词根本中文字幕就没翻出来，意思更不多。如果你看的英文字幕，就会发现这是比任何电影或电视剧都好的英文教材，太多好句子和实用的表达，还有很多极其精炼的词语，就像我们的很多成语或俗语一样，精辟又富有深意。往往看一遍该剧体会不到，因为第一遍都集中看sex内容了，但如果看第二遍，特别是前四季的话，用英文字幕，你就会明白我的意思。每次看都会学到好多东西。比一些其他电视剧的对白写得好出不知多少倍。英文实用度和难度也在Friends等sitcom之上。它之所以有名和受人爱，也是因为里面的文字讲出了很多在任何其他地方都没有被人讲过的东西，充满大胆直接坦诚又百分百从女人角度出发的各种想法。而且既幽默讽刺又很有深度，还创造出很多有趣的词汇和用法，在别的地方保证找不到（下面有一些词汇罗列）。同时这个剧也道出了四个纽约单身职业女性的感情生活，里面既有一般人不会经历所以才吸引人的东西，也有全世界人都在经历的共同点，但每次她们在聊天时都会不经意说出很多关于女性，生活，爱情的真理。这四个角色本身当然也塑造得非常成功，基本上任何一个女人都会找到一个与她们特别接近的角色，还有，这里让你真正全面地认识纽约。不管你是因为什么喜欢这个show，归根结底，其实都是因为它&ldquo;写&rdquo;得特别好，这有原小说作者的功劳，也有编剧的功劳。<strong> <font color="#ffb0b0">So sex and the city is not a show about good sex, it is a show about good writing!</font></strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">OK, 基本上该出去的都出去了吧，it&rsquo;s time to begin&hellip;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><img alt="normal_1173775299.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/normal_1173775299.jpg?t=1210588920" /></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffb0b0"><strong>(</strong><strong>一</strong><strong>) The Four New York Single Women:</strong></font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Once upon a time on a small island not too far away, there lived four smart, beautiful women who were all very good friends&hellip;&hellip;They like to meet in a coffee shop to talk about men. When it came to their love lives, it seemed they could never agree on anything. They debated a wide variety of hot topics: marriage, divorce, pregnancy, honesty, fidelity, compatibility, and commitment. </font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Two of them are blondes, one brunette and one redhead.</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Miranda and Samantha are the more masculine characters; Carrie and Charlotte are the more feminine.</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">But the four women have one thing in common: none of them had found Mr. Right.</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Charlotte</strong><strong>: &ldquo;I hate it when you&rsquo;re the only single person at a dinner party and they all look like you&rsquo;re a &hellip;.&rdquo;</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Carrie: &ldquo;Loser?&rdquo;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Miranda: &ldquo;Leper!&rdquo;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Samantha: &ldquo;Whore!&rdquo;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">The four women have dated, tried to date and refused to date quite a few Manhattan men in this show. As Miranda put it, &ldquo;Who would have thought an island so small could hold all of our boyfriends?&rdquo; (By the way, half of them are Samantha&rsquo;s )</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Did they find their Happily- Ever-After in the end? Actually, from the first episode, we have been told, in New York, there is no such a thing called Happily-Ever-After. But whatever lies ahead, the four women will always have each other, and they will always have New York.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>按理来说，我应该先写</strong><strong>Carrie</strong><strong>，因为她是女主角，但这个</strong><strong>show</strong><strong>里我最喜欢、也觉得跟我有最多共同点并最崇拜的是</strong><strong>Miranda</strong><strong>，在作心理测试后，结果也说，我</strong><strong>60%</strong><strong>的</strong><strong>Miranda, 30%</strong><strong>的</strong><strong>Carrie, 10%</strong><strong>的</strong><strong>Samantha</strong><strong>，超准的！</strong><strong>I am totally a Miranda girl! </strong><strong>所以请准许俺先写她。</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="mirandahobbes.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/mirandahobbes.jpg?t=1210589063" /></font></div>
<div><font color="#f3b6e4"><strong>1 Miranda Hobbes</strong> ----<strong>The woman I have most common with</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Miranda</strong><strong>是个&ldquo;慢热&rdquo;又愤事疾俗的人，表面上看很冷酷很干瘪，很怕别人接近她，防人心很重而且喜欢冷嘲热讽，但说话确实一语中地，是四个女人中最理智，但其实也是最脆弱的一个，就是因为怕受伤，才把自己保护得很好，很小心。在坚强外表下其实有颗很软又很渴望保护的心。我最爱听她讲话，总是妙语连珠，语言中充满哲理和智慧，而且很有幽默感。</strong><strong>Miranda</strong><strong>的服饰比较正统，因为职业的关系，日常穿着比较男性化，在家则最随意，但偶尔一打扮出去，与往日则变化特别大。一开始她似乎很讨厌男人，但后来慢慢的也在改变各种想法，特别是</strong><strong>Steve</strong><strong>改变她很多。</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>1) </strong><strong>特征：</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---is a corporate lawyer frustrated by the indignities of dating but reluctant to settle for less than she deserved.;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---<strong>career-minded</strong> woman and is a true <strong>feminist</strong> and <strong>pessimist </strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---with quick wit,<strong> pragmatism</strong> and deeply held opinions, she represents the <strong>realists</strong>. </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---<strong>cynical, bitter, pithy, deadpan, harsh and judgmental</strong> but she always has a cute smile whenever she finds herself charmed. (Steve called her &ldquo;a real Pisser&rdquo;)</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---favorite topics are sexism, power and hypocrisy, always the first one to point out the sexual double standard</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---utterly unafraid to say what she thinks and like to use a sense of humor when talk about embarrassed moments. </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---<strong>sharp as nails and hilariously sarcastic but actually the most brittle one, underneath her hard exterior beats a soft, soulful heart</strong></font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---sensitive about boundaries and tend to push men away.</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#dcb7f2">2) Dating History:</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">She has a lot of weird dating experience: a Catholic guy that has to shower right after sex; a guy died on the first date; a phone-sexer who was having phone sex with more than one woman at the same time; a guy who has a spanking fetish; a guy who watches porn while having sex, and a guy who just not that into her&hellip;..</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">when she almost giving up all the men in the world, she met <font color="#a20983">Steve</font>, the bartender, who is soooo sweet that completely melt her down. Steve adored her unashamedly, lovingly and unconditionally </font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">But Steve is a working-class and Miranda isn&rsquo;t. Although they complemented each other emotionally, there are many issues kept getting in the way: class difference, her pessimism, his childish qualities, and they broke up twice but finally end up marring each other with a lovely child.</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>3) </strong><strong>结局</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Miranda changed a lot as well. She used to refuse any kind of help and pity. She prefers to do anything by herself but eventually she opens to love from Steve and her friends. She used to hate children but after got pregnant by a mercy-fuck with Steve, she decided to keep the child and became a good mum and finally a good wife.</font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">As a wife and mother, Miranda expanded her world and became an adult in the true sense of the word. </font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>4</strong><strong>）犯过的最大错误</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Biggest Mistake: Kept pushing Steve away</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>5) Miranda</strong><strong>经典语录：</strong></font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Miranda&rsquo;s thought on Men and Marriage:</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong>Men are like cabs, when they are available, their lights are on. They wake up one day , decide to settle down and they turn their lights on. The next woman they pick up is the one they&rsquo;ll marry. It&rsquo;s not FATE! It&rsquo;s DUMB LUCK! It&rsquo;s all about timing, you got to get them when their lights on! (It&rsquo;s very good explanation of the marriage of Big and Natasha)---</strong><strong>最经典的一个</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>If they&rsquo;re not married, they&rsquo;re gay, or burned from a divorce, or aliens from the planet &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t Date Me&rdquo; （Describe Men）</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>My right ovary has given up hope that I will ever get married and have kids. It&rsquo;s like working on a case that you know is going to settle out of court. Why bother?</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>A thirty-four-year-old guy with no money and no place to live, because he&rsquo;s single, he&rsquo;s a catch. But a thirty-four-year-old woman with a job and a great home, because she&rsquo;s single, is considered tragic.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>Oral sex is like God&rsquo;s gift to women. You can get off without worrying about getting pregnant.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>I know how to please a man. You just give away most of your power</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>I don&rsquo;t make pies. If I like them, I can buy them.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>Have you ever seen anyone special? No! But I have seen a lot of un-specials!</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong>Married people are the enemies!</strong></font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="carriebradshaw.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/carriebradshaw.jpg?t=1210589032" /></font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#f3b6e4"><strong>2 Carrie Bradshaw</strong> ---<strong>The woman I want to be but never can be</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">几乎所有看过本剧的人多少都会羡慕<strong>Carrie, her life, her style, her hair, her shoes, her clothes, her friends, her men&hellip;.(Except for the smoking thing) and the city she lived in. Carrie</strong><strong>是很会社交的人物，也有很好的性格，是个倾听者，男人与女人还有同性恋都喜欢与她作朋友，但她优柔寡断，很容易感情用事，和禁受不住诱惑而妥协，也很容易做出一些不理智的事情，特别不能同意的是</strong><strong>having an affair with Big while he is married to Natasha</strong><strong>。</strong><strong>She is not perfect, but we still love her.</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>1)</strong><strong>特征</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#dcb7f2"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">--is a journalist who chronicled the battle of the sexes in her New York Star column.</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">--is a blithe spirit-- inquisitive, smart, striving and yearning</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">--With her intelligence, loyalty, mind-boggling fashion sensibility and open heart, she is the best friend every girl wants and the girlfriend of every guy&rsquo;s dreams.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">--Search for a man while maintain her independence</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">--Does not believe marriage is the be-all and end-all of life</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">--<strong>is so complex, not just any man will do, only can be with the one who is &ldquo;strong enough to catch her&rdquo;.</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>2</strong><strong>）</strong><strong>Dating History:</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---<strong><font color="#a20983">Mr. Big:</font> with Big, Carrie seems could never lead a Big-free life. But Big can let her be herself. They broke up a lot because of the &ldquo;intimacy&rdquo; issue: He has commitment issues; He likes to look at other women; married before; He does not want to take Carrie to see his parents; He does not consider Carrie when he made plans; He told Carrie that he does not want to marry again; Carrie thought she deserved someone who knew she was &ldquo;the one&rdquo;. They are on and off for many times. </strong></font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Aidan:</font> a stable, down-home good guy. He forced her to examine her own commitment phobia. After two attempts to sustain their relationships&mdash;one that led to an affair with Big and one that led to their engagement, Carrie remained conflicted and Aidan left her.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Jack Berger:</font> a writer. Carrie tried her best to make this one work, but this time it was the man who wasn&rsquo;t ready. He cannot take the fact that she is more successful than&nbsp;him. He left her with a Post-it!</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Aleksandr Petrovksy:</font>an artist. He took Carrie to Paris but Carrie found out that she doesn&rsquo;t want to live in someone else&rsquo;s world.</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>3)</strong><strong>结局：</strong></font></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Mr Big took her back to New York and also took her back to herself. </strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>4</strong><strong>）最大的错误：</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">The Biggest mistake: Cheat on Aidan by having an affair with Big.</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>5) </strong><strong>经典语录</strong><strong>(</strong><strong>有些以前写过了，但为本文完整性，只好再贴一遍，抱歉！</strong><strong>)</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>I am missing the bride gene. I should be put in a test tube and studied。</font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong>Do women all need to be rescued? What if Prince Charming had never showed up? Would Snow White have slept in that glass coffin forever? Or would she have eventually woken up, spited out the apple, gotten a job with a heath care package and a baby from her local neighborhood sperm bank?&rdquo;</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong>Soul mate, two little words, one big concept. A belief that someone somewhere is holding the key to your heart and your dream house. All you have to do is find them. So where is this person? And if you have someone and it didn't work out, does that mean they weren't your soul mates?</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong>In a relationship, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. In fact it is a common belief that a relationship without pain is a relationship not&nbsp;worth having.</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong>Relationships, no matter how good, are inevitably a series of compromises. How much ourselves should be willing to sacrifice for the other person before we stopping being ourselves?</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong>People say everything happens for a reason. These people are usually women and these women are usually sorting through a breakup. It seems men can get out of a relationship without even a good-bye. But apparently women have to either get married or learn something.</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong>I realized that relationships had a caste system of their own. There's a person who says &quot;I love you&quot; and there is person who never responds</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></strong><strong>The world is made up by two kinds of girls: the simple girl and the Kitty girl( Kitty from the movie &ldquo;The Way We Were&rdquo;</strong><strong>，</strong><strong>I am totally the Kitty girl)</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong>Charles Dickens wrote &ldquo;It was the best of times, it was the worst of times&rdquo;, I believe he must have having an affair with his married ex-boyfriend. </strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="samanthajones.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/samanthajones.jpg?t=1210589083" /></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><font color="#f3b6e4"><strong>3</strong> <strong>Samantha Jones---the woman I want to be friends with</strong></font> </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>几乎所有人第一次看这剧都被</strong><strong>Samantha</strong><strong>吓到，</strong><strong>she is such a wild horse</strong><strong>！但是除了那</strong><strong>horny part of her, </strong><strong>再看时发现这个女人其实很可爱，说话最冲，最直接也最有笑点，而且她也很独立，像</strong><strong>Miranda</strong><strong>一样非常</strong><strong>powerful</strong><strong>。她最后在癌症面前显示出的勇敢很令人敬佩。最爱看的就是她经常说话把</strong><strong>Charlotte</strong><strong>气到转头就跑。同时她很挺朋友，够意气，就算她风流，也从不会做出伤害朋友的事，而且不会随意评判别人，什么事都能接受，所以</strong><strong>Carrie</strong><strong>有很多话不敢跟别人说但一定会跟她说。我一直觉得有这么个朋友应该很</strong><strong>Cool!</strong><strong>可以从她那里学到很多东西，做了什么也不会被她批评，还有很多机会参加各种活动，认识很多人。</strong><strong>I think she is really cool!</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>1</strong><strong>）</strong><strong>特征：</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#dcb7f2"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---is a public relations executive who<strong> believed women could have sex like men;</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">--- <strong>had an uninhibited, free-spirited approach to sex , practically slept with every man in Manhattan, or at least half of them.</strong> </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---<strong>is not afraid of trying anything.</strong> There is no sexual act she will not try.</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---is<strong> horny, randy, opinionated , adventuresome and self-protective</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---for a long time, saw monogamy as a disease she didn&rsquo;t want to catch</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---in the six seasons that we saw, she slept more than 40 men, two women (including herself) and numerous vibrators.(only those that we &ldquo;saw&rdquo;)</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">--- she never sleep with friends&rsquo; boyfriends. Friendship is very important to her and she always stands up for her friends no matter what happens, even including taking care of baby.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---Hates children</font></div>
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<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>2 </strong><strong>）</strong><strong>Dating History (or Sex History)</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">She has slept with a septuagenarian, a college student, a fireman, a farmer, a baby talker, a man that is &ldquo;too big&rdquo; , a man that is &ldquo;too small&rdquo;, a lesbian, and many many other men with various of careers. She doesn&rsquo;t care about religion, color, class or age. She is a real liberalist!<br />
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">She does have some guys that she cares deeply:</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---James, who is very lovable but unfortunately has a penis the size of pencil eraser.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Dominic</font>, a guy used to break her heart.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Maria</font>, a lesbian artist that she involved too much talking</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Richard</font>, a total match for her, (like Big for Carrie, has commitment issues) but bad for her too. From him, Samantha realized that she has a vulnerable side that she doesn&rsquo;t want to confront.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Smith</font>, after living for sex for so many years, finally there is a man treats her like a real girlfriend. When Samantha has cancer, it is Smith who is taking care of her and holding her hands. </font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>3</strong><strong>）结局</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Samantha, deserved loud applause by showing great braveness when facing cancer and this most fiercely independent woman, had found a relationship that didn&rsquo;t camp her style, but allowed her to be joyful and content. </font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>4</strong><strong>）最大的错误：</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Biggest Mistakes: Wasting time on guys like Richard. </font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>5</strong><strong>）经典语录：</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#dcb7f2"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Samantha&rsquo;s ideas about Sex and Men:</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>A guy could just as easily dump you if you fuck him on the first dates as he can if you wait until the tenth.</font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>The only place you control a man is in bed. If we perpetually gave men blow jobs, we could run the world!</font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>The women who wrote about those rules because they couldn&rsquo;t get laid. So they constructed this whole bullshit theory to make women who can get laid feel bad.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong>Before you buy the car, you take it for a test drive! (referring premarital sex, I totally agree!)</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>My weekends are for meeting new guys so I don&rsquo;t have to keep fucking the old ones!</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><strong>Marriage doesn&rsquo;t guarantee a happy ending. Just an ending!</strong> (Totally agree!)</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>You can tell a guy &ldquo;I hate you&rdquo; and get the best sex in your life, but tell them &ldquo; I love you&rdquo;, you&rsquo;ll probably never see them again!</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="charlotteyork.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/charlotteyork.jpg?t=1210589103" /></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><font color="#f3b6e4"><strong>4</strong> </font><strong><font color="#f3b6e4">Charlotte York ---a woman I never want to be and never will be</font> </strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>如果非要让我在四人中选一个不喜欢的，恐怕就是</strong><strong>Charlotte</strong><strong>。</strong><strong>She is like a mom, she is like everyone&rsquo;s mom</strong><strong>，在别人说到尽兴时在旁边泼冷水的类型，有的时候真想扶着她的肩膀使劲摇晃她，让她清醒一些，怎么那么看不开和死脑筋？</strong><strong>She has made so many foolish mistakes, including marrying Trey. </strong><strong>但是要承认的是，偶尔她的保守和规矩也让人感觉有个人在旁边时刻给敲警钟似乎也是好事。而且她是几人中最漂亮的，这个我要承认，所以经常她一穿晚礼服就让人很&ldquo;惊艳！&rdquo;至于她的感情故事则完全是</strong><strong>Shreck</strong><strong>童话的现实版。</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>1</strong><strong>）特征</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---is an art dealer who felt the best way to get a man was to play by the rules</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---is a rosy-eyed<strong> idealist</strong>, but honest and brave. </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"></font>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---often <strong>espouses a traditional view of men, marriage and commitment</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---Her goal is <strong>looking for completion</strong> </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">---Always wants to have a child but hard to get pregnant</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>2</strong><strong>）</strong><strong>Dating History:</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>She always wants to find prince-charming, but instead, she met Licky-Faced Guy, Up-the Butt Guy, Fall-Asleep Guy, Getting-in-Fights Guy, Yell-During Sex Guy, and so many Weird Guys(Miranda</strong><strong>和</strong><strong>Charlotte</strong><strong>是四人种遇到&ldquo;恐怖男&rdquo;最多的两位，什么奇怪品种都赶上了</strong><strong>)&hellip;then finally a </strong><strong>&ldquo;</strong><strong>Prince-Charming</strong><strong>&rdquo;</strong><strong>--Dr. Trey, but he cannot &ldquo;get it up&rdquo; and with lots of problems &hellip;so she moved on but never give up &hellip;then she met </strong><strong>&ldquo;</strong><strong>Shrek</strong><strong>&rdquo;</strong><strong> <span>--The lawyer, Harry, finally found her &ldquo;Happily- Ever- After&rdquo;, just not what she used to dream of . </span></strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Trey </font>helped Charlotte to grow up, from a woman with lots of rules to a woman knowing how to compromise.</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#a20983">Harry</font> is nothing like Charlotte was looking for but everything she needed. Harry gave Charlotte the best sex of her life, Judaism, and ultimately, a ring. Harry&rsquo;s imperfect perfection helped Charlotte through a miscarriage and an adoption.</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>3</strong><strong>）结局</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#dcb7f2"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">In the end, Charlotte completed an impressive transformation from a woman who cared so much about what was good on paper to one who finally learned to listen to her own heart. </font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>4</strong><strong>）最大错误</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#dcb7f2"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">The biggest mistake: Married Trey so fast after they met without finding out the sex problem and getting to know each other more. </font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#dcb7f2"><strong>5</strong><strong>）精典语录</strong></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#dcb7f2"></font></strong>&nbsp;</div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Charlotte</strong><strong>&rsquo;s rules:</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>Women really just want to be rescued</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>No one buys a classic six on the Upper West Side unless they are seriously thinking about marriage</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>You can&rsquo;t have sex with someone on the first date, wait until the fifth.</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>A vibrator does not call you on your birthday. A vibrator doesn&rsquo;t send you flowers the day after. You cannot take a vibrator home to meet your mother。</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>It takes half the total time you went out with someone to get over them</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>If you don&rsquo;t have sex for a year, you can actually become revirginized</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><span>l<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span>The only thing worse than being thirty-four and single is being thirty-four and divorced!</font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffb0b0">轮到说说男主角了</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffb0b0"><strong>（二）</strong><strong>The Guys in the show</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="113f4f3a302.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/113f4f3a302.jpg?t=1210588786" /></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#f3b6e4">1 Mr. Big---the Soul Mate</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Handsome, sexy, charming, smart, mature, rich, worldly, sophisticated, and driven, Big is Carrie&rsquo;s perfect match. But he has so many problems with intimacy, commitment and honesty. Every time, Carrie tried to look for a sign that Big really loves her, he is not there. He is a guy that finds it is so difficult to say to someone &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; or &ldquo;You are the One&rdquo;. He has been through two marriages, both ends up cheating with another woman.</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">Mr. Big was modeled on Vogue publisher Ron Galotti. (No wonder he likes to date models!)</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">The real problem of Big, in my opinion, is he doesn&rsquo;t want to give up his own freedom but still wants other people in his life. </font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">The chemistry between Big and Carrie is so strong that no matter how many times they broke up, they always managed to wind up together again. </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Although it seems Big is bad for Carrie and he hurt her a lot, he is always there every time Carrie needs him most: when she is lonely, she is in trouble of money, or when everyone else let her down. <strong>He is the only man that really fits Carrie, enough for Carrie and can let Carrie be herself. </strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">After so many break ups, we see them end up together at the end of the show and we think they can finally live happily ever after! But why he is trying to get away again from the wedding? We will find out in the movie. </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="ep63_carrie_aidan_whitedress.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/ep63_carrie_aidan_whitedress.jpg?t=1210588963" /></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#f3b6e4">2 Aidan ---the Perfect guy</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Aidan is the perfect guy that every girl dreamed of, the down-to-earth boyfriend and great husband type who can love you with his whole heart. Accessible, loyal and devoted, he is everything Mr Big isn&rsquo;t. He is the anti-Mr Big guy:</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Big doesn&rsquo;t like to stay in Carrie&rsquo;s home and doesn&rsquo;t like Carrie leave any stuff in his home. Big also doesn&rsquo;t like to introduce Carrie to his mother. But Aidan always stay in Carrie&rsquo;s place , cook for her, introduce her to his parents when they just started dating. Aidan loves Carrie crazily and unconditionally. And he is the first one that is willing to live with her and proposed to her.<strong> Aidan is the guy perfect for marriage but just not the right guy for Carrie</strong> because Carrie is too wild for him. He always stay at home, doesn&rsquo;t like to go to the bars or clubs, he is too boring for Carrie. </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">(When Aidan与Carrie第一次分手后, 很多观众抗议, 因为Aiden是做家具的,观众向HBO寄去各种家具写上文字,让他回到剧里, Big的影迷也有这样做,送的是气球,写着 &ldquo;不要让Big飘走&rdquo;)</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">By the way, when Aidan back in the Four Season, he looks thinner and much better with his shorter hair. At that moment, for the first time, I felt Carrie should choose him over Big. However she didn&rsquo;t. &hellip;It must take so much strength to let such a great guy slip away. I will never do something like that. </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="ep88_mir_steve_wedding.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/ep88_mir_steve_wedding.jpg?t=1210588945" /></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#f3b6e4">3 Steve Brady---the Sweetest guy (My favorite guy of the show!)</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">He is not tall or rich but he is like sunshine for Miranda. I almost feel that he is there to save Miranda from her angry and lonely life. Because of him, Miranda is happy and changed a lot. <strong>They just look so perfect for each other. </strong>Every Miranda-girl will need a man sweet like Steve to match her up because other men are just not warm enough to melt down her cold heart. Where is my Steve? T___T</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="322charlotteandharrywedding.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/322charlotteandharrywedding.jpg?t=1210588625" /></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#f3b6e4">4 Harry---the Shrek</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Harry wasn&rsquo;t supposed to be Charlotte&rsquo;s dream man&mdash;she chose him as her divorce lawyer expressly because he was someone she wasn&rsquo;t attracted to. But Harry was a great lawyer and is crazy about Charlotte. She found herself having the best sex of her life with the very hairy, sweaty baldly. The only thing between them is the religion difference. I really admire Charlotte that she can become a Jew for marriage. I can never do that! <strong>(It just like Fionna chooses to become an ogre for marring Shrek!)</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="ep89_sam_smith.jpg picture by mofalanmao" src="http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd154/mofalanmao/ep89_sam_smith.jpg?t=1210589013" /></font></div>
<div><strong><font color="#f3b6e4">5 Smith Jerrod---the Superhero</font></strong></div>
<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Samantha never thought she is someone needs to be rescued or saved, she even doesn&rsquo;t like to be hold hands. But when she got cancer, she finally felt it is good that there is a guy around to love her. Smith and Samantha met the usual Samantha-way, but after the sex, surprisingly he wants to stay for a little longer and Samantha wants him around too. Even he is much younger than her, he is the one show up when Samantha needed him most and he just kept reaching her hands, again and again. </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;<img alt="" src="http://cache.marriott.com/propertyimages/n/nycmh/phototour/nycmh_phototour10.jpg" /></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffb0b0"><strong>(</strong><strong>三</strong><strong>) New York City---the city itself is the fifth main character in the show</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Part of the reason I love the show is because it&rsquo;s a story about the city as well. I am a huge City-Lover and urban person. I love all the big and global cities in the world, NYC, London, LA, Paris, Berlin, Toronto, Beijing&hellip;.so I love those movies or TV shows that really tell the stories of a city. New York City is always so glamorous to me, the lights, the skyscrapers, the central park, the Time Square, the fashion, the theatres, the people on the streets....everything is really charming and exciting to me. I was there for a while and really loved any piece of it. I wish to go back to visit sometime soon.</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">New York City is a place where the strangest sorts of people have a way of coming together. Where people get around in small yellow buggies(the cab), go to delis at four in the morning, drink pink cocktails, and run into exes(ex-bfs/ex-gfs) when they least want to see them. A city of towering heels and nerves of steel, so bold and alive that no matter what day of the week it is, there&rsquo; s always a party somewhere. An island with so many single guys that you can find a &ldquo;man&rdquo; right insight its name.</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">In New York City, you walk out the door and you do not know what is going to happen. There&rsquo;s such potential for poetry. </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>在这本书里和</strong><strong>Sex and the City</strong><strong>的官方网站上都能找到地图，告诉你剧中那些很酷的酒吧，餐厅，商店，酒店等的名字和位置，除了主角的住处外，其余地方都是真实存在的！！！利用这些地图可以更好的了解纽约，将来旅游很有用！</strong></font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">&nbsp;</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">四人居住地址，</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Carrie&rsquo;s Apartment: Upper East Side,&nbsp;245 East 73rd Street (not exist)</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Charlotte&rsquo;s Apartment: Upper East Side, 700 Park Avenue (not exist)</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Miranda&rsquo;s Apartment: Upper West Side, 331 West 78th Street (not exist)</font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">Samantha&rsquo;s Apartment: Meatpacking District &amp; Chelsea, 300 Gansevoort Street. (not exist)</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffb0b0"><strong>（四）</strong><strong>Fashion---the sixth main character of the show!</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>里面提到的品牌和各种饰物太多了，我不是个有时尚敏感度的人，所以看到第三遍才开始注意这些，除了早听说过的</strong><strong>Channel, Dior, Prada</strong><strong>等，以下这些给我印象比较深刻：</strong></font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#f3b6e4">Manolo Blahnik</font> (Shoes)---90% of shoes Carrie wore in the show are Manolo Blahnik. Sex and the City and Sara Jessica Parker had done great advertising for this shoe brand and they even made a shoe named SJP to thank Parker</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf">（Bevely Hills也有这个店，但俺这个对时尚不感兴趣的人已经路过那里无数遍直到上个月才注意到它的存在！- -|||，蓝猫的时尚智商是：。。。zero! But I know all the best cinemas and all the cool movie-related-products stores in LA!）</font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#f3b6e4">Dolce &amp; Gabbana</font>(clothes)---The one wants Carrie to be the model on a fashion show, in the end let her wear a diamond underwear. </font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#f3b6e4">Fendi</font>(bag)---80%of Carrie&rsquo;s bags in the show are Fendi&rsquo;s.</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#f3b6e4">Birkin Bag</font> : Samantha wanted to buy it by using Lucy Liu&rsquo;s name. In real life, it indeed cost about as much as a small car! The line for it is years long! I can&rsquo;t believe why women want the bag that much!&nbsp;You can find a same size , much better looking bag anywhere at any price, why that one? I may never understand that&hellip;</font></strong></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">---<font color="#f3b6e4">The Nameplate Necklace</font>: Carrie&rsquo;s fav necklace that has her name on.</font></strong></div>
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<div><font color="#ffb0b0"><strong>(</strong><strong>五</strong><strong>) Sex and the city</strong><strong>专用字典：</strong></font></div>
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<div><strong><font color="#ffdfdf">哈哈，好玩的来咯！</font></strong></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>很多人看这个</strong><strong>show</strong><strong>就像我一样，发现很多词根本在字典查不到，如果你看的中文字幕，那可能根本就不会出现在字幕里，但在</strong><strong>sex and the city</strong><strong>里有很多有趣又流行的词汇，只有在本剧中能找到解释，或是在本剧中有与以往不同的解释，也可能是早就约定俗成的一种表达，但属于绝对在课本或正式学习中无法学到的。</strong><strong>So now, read and learn!(</strong><strong>以下只是一些举例，书中还有很多，超乐的</strong><strong>)</strong><strong>。这些词很可能还会再出现在电影版中</strong><strong>.</strong><strong>这也是从另一方面体现</strong><strong>how wonderful the writing is !(</strong><strong>按字母顺序排的</strong><strong>,</strong><strong>全部英文解释才比较正宗，很多中文翻译不出或味道就不对了，如果对照，可能会发现你以前看中文字幕错过了很多精彩的东西！</strong><strong>)</strong></font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Absofuckinglutely</strong>---en expression that denotes certainty in a way deliverable only by Mr. Big</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Baby Blue</strong>---Viagra</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Bed Arrest</strong>---the state of inertia invoked when your bf makes you cuddle with him all day, thus preventing you from doing your errands.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Box of Freakdom</strong>---the home of illicit photos, love letters, old marriage licenses; every guy has one&mdash;or does he?</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Blow Job Tug-Of-War</strong>---the elaborate dance that ensures when a man tries to encourage the woman to go south when she would rather stay far north.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Clam Mouth</strong>---When a guy&rsquo;s tongue just lays there in your mouth like a clam</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Classic Six-</strong>--an apartment with six rooms: two bedroom, a living room, a dining room, a kitchen and a maid&rsquo;s room; frequently found on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. An apartment a guy buys only if he&rsquo;s think about marriage.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Clit Tease---</strong>a straight girl who hangs out with lesbians without telling them that she&rsquo;s straight.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Codependent Coming</strong>---When a woman fakes orgasms because he&rsquo;s a nice guy and means well. </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Dining-Out-Alone-Armor</strong>---a book; a project; the things you bring with you to make being alone in a restaurant less embarrassing </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Double-Book</strong>---to schedule two dates in one night (I have done that, totally a mess, not recommended!)</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>&ldquo;Everything But&rdquo; Girl</strong>---a girl who does everything but have intercourse with a guy</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Faux Call</strong>---the humiliating but common process of calling an ex and hanging up because you have no idea what you&rsquo;d say if he picked up</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Flo is coming to town</strong>---I&rsquo;m getting my period.</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Frenemies</strong>---two friends who are always fighting it out for everything</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Fuck Buddy</strong>---1) a guy you&rsquo;ve had a couple of dates with that didn&rsquo;t really go anywhere, but the sex was so great you keep him on call; 2) not a slave but has a life, a life you don&rsquo;t really have to know about; 3) guaranteed delivery within Manhattan in six hours or less</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Gay-Straight Man</strong>---a straight man who has overexposed to fashion, exotic cuisine, musical theatre and antique furniture, as a result, he speaks or acts like a gay. </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Gherkin</strong>---a small penis</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Good-On-Paper Guy</strong>---a guy with great credentials whom you always wind up leaving for some hot guy who rides a motorcycle and doesn&rsquo;t have a checking account. </font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Goody Drawer</strong>---the nightstand drawer in which a person keeps all the sex essentials</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Grand Gesture</strong>---the powerful declaration of a guy&rsquo;s love that makes you reconsider your decision to break up with him. </font></div>
<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>Illegal Dumping</strong>--- when someone dumps you before getting to know you</font></div>
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<div><font color="#ffdfdf"><strong>La Douleur Exqui